does a healthy, happy loving relationship seem out of reach?
Hi, I’m Hilary Silver…
I’m Relationship & Intimacy Expert, Love Coach and Renowned Mentor to single successful women just like you, who want a healthy happy loving relationship.
I know how it feels to want love so desperately but it just continues to remain elusive. You watch everyone finding love, settling down or starting families but the longer it takes you to find “the one” the more you begin to believe something is really wrong with you.
Before I met my husband, I struggled to feel worthy and believed something was wrong with me and that everyone else could have love, but not me. This kept me stuck in a negative loop of hiding the real me so they wouldn’t reject me… then it would happen all over again. I was overlooked by the men I was interested in and settled for men I knew weren’t right for me.
Finally, I invested in a mentor and did the work to overcome my obstacles and within weeks, I met the man that I’ve now been with for nearly 20 years and have created the exact life I always wanted!
This is the same process and method that I’ve now been teaching for 2 decades and have helped thousands of clients find love, launch healthy relationships and keep their love alive through babies, business and busy-ness!
Not a happy time for me. Felt lonely, sad and disconnected all the time. Decide I am on my own so I have to figure things out by myself. Think something is wrong me with me and I’m not lovable. Have friends and boyfriends but nothing meaningful or genuine. Feel a deep sense of unworthiness and keep all those feelings and thoughts to myself.
After nearly failing out of college my freshman year, feeling lost, confused and depressed I transfer to the University of Kansas to finish my degree. Happier but still struggle to feel worthy of and maintain romantic relationships. Realize something isn’t right inside, start reading self-help books, take a groundbreaking class on relationships – become a group facilitator and run my first relationship group. My career has started though I don’t yet realize it at the time.
Anthropology degree in hand and a new found understanding of self-love and relationships with others (thanks to that class), I bought a one-way ticket to Italy and return 7 months later from Indonesia. 10 countries visited in all. Learned I MUST be who I really am and share who I am with people to have connection. I also realize I can do anything I want to do! Eager for more adventure, I teach English in Japan for a year and travel in southeast Asia.