i know what it feels like

to want

Does a healthy, happy relationship seem out of reach?

Do you worry you’ll never reach that next level of success?

I know how you feel.

And I have over 20 years of experience helping women just like you truly HAVE IT ALL.

I’m Hilary.

Here’s what you should know about me:

I’m a clinical psychotherapist who had a busy and successful private practice for 14 years

“Discovered” coaching and realized I’ve always been a coach but just didn’t know it (that’s why my clients got results!)

Closed my practice and launched online coaching, wellness and empowerment company for women in 2017

I now mentor the most amazing women & witness life changing transformations

I have grown my company to multi million dollar success and experienced my own transformation 

All the while, wifing to my hunky hubby and momming my two wonderful kids (+ one fur baby)

Want to know if I'm the

real deal?

Meet the team!

Our Enrollment Team






Our Elite Coaching Team

Jamie McGinnis

Jamie McGinnis is passionate about love, dating, and mindset management! She is an expert at helping our clients get results quickly! Jamie has been married, divorced, and dated her way to monogamy as a single parent… and is in a sexy, loving relationship with the man of her dreams. She understands first-hand what many of our clients face – and has educated herself on what really works. Her areas of expertise include dating strategies for women in their 40s and 50s, navigating the online space, showing up authentically and empowered, handling breakups, moving on, and communication in all relationships. Jamie loves watching our clients as they begin to like themselves, get out of their own way, and truly know deep down they are worthy of happiness.

Heather Gray

As a therapist and coach, Heather Gray has been helping women get out of their own way for the past twenty years. Working with you in Ready for Love, Heather will help you identify the self-sabotaging ways you have been holding yourself back and playing small. You’ll step into your truth and take unapologetic control over your life.

Sherrie Toews

Sherrie is a therapist turned coach with 30+ years of experience working with clients. She is best known for her body of work that she calls ‘the little who,’ which helps people expand their emotional intelligence and heal their inner child all to help end self sabotage and allow us to become our best selves.    

Our Admin Team


Leila is our Director of Operations, Project Manager and Client Concierge. Thank goodness for Leila, who keeps all the many pieces in place and makes our lives easier! 


Loyal companion and fierce guard dog. When Lola’s not alerting us of passersby or packages being delivered, she always makes sure Hilary gets off her butt and gets some fresh air.

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