I feel like I’ve actually found a ‘keeper’! . We met on Match in early November (I can’t say I was really enjoying the online thing at all ). We had our first date on 11/20. My guy-dar was up; looking for any red flags. I was focused on presenting my authentic self (take me as I am or not) and ensuring he was meeting my must-haves as we dated, initially only saw each other once a week then increased it a bit more around Christmas. Well it’s been almost 4 months since that first date and things are so incredible. He communicates really well, he’s very thoughtful, chemistry is great, we have so much fun together. We took a trip to Austin and got snowed in in NJ on the way back. We’ve gone hiking, snow shoeing, skiing, fat biking as well as just hanging out. We are reading a book together. Going to a concert this weekend. We don’t have to be together to feel connected. He also has 3 teenage kids. He’s kind to his ex-wife. Feeling fortunate. And I really do attribute my success to your program. I learned a lot about myself, how to change my ways and how not to settle. I definitely kissed a few frogs on the journey but I recognized the red flags sooo much sooner, saw the men so much more clearly.