I found love and I am deeply in love. He is the man I’ve looked for my 41 years on this earth. I let down my wall and just let this amazing man in. He is a man who says how he feels when he feels it and means what he says. He can build furniture, he owns a successful business, has a great family, is a fantastic father to three daughters and but is just as sweet and sensitive as he is manly. We are planning a future together. I never knew it could be this easy. I can finally see myself the way that he sees me, and I love what I see. I deserve this.
It’s official!!! I’m DIVORCED! And I got my name back! It’s Laure French now.
I want to thank you Hilary Silver for your amazing support, I’m not sure where I’d be without you…it has been SO MUCH more than “dating advice.” You have been my lifeline to sanity. I wouldn’t have known how to put a healthy frame around the overwhelm of the last couple of months! I am beyond grateful for you and this group! Also, Hilary – I’m in a great relationship right now! It’s my first real relationship. I’m thrilled for all I’ve learned with you!
I wanted to express my heartfelt thanks to your team for turning my life around! Soon after completing your course I changed my entire attitude and behavior about myself and the men I was dating.
I implemented the “visualize yourself in 5-year plan’ and where I want to be then. This concept and way of thinking transformed me! I was totally blind sighted last weekend when the gentleman (i.e. man of my dreams) proposed to me and put a 3-carat diamond on my finger! We started dating upon my conclusion of your program and my life will never be the same!!!
Words cannot express my appreciation and thankfulness for your team and the transformation that occurred in my heart and mind! Thanks to you my retirement starts December 20th with a 10-day trip to Canada with him. When we return we will anticipate our wedding February 15th.
Again, thanks!!!!! Wow what a whirlwind this has been!!!
I’ve been a quiet alumni but was compelled to share this. Towards the end of Hilary Silver’s program I met an amazing man. We’ve been together for 11 months and counting. We got into an argument this past weekend. Before, I would have panicked and went straight to fight mode. But because of Hilary’s program, I now have self-respect, I’m able to pause, then articulate my needs and talk things through. All is good (great even) with Joe and I, weathering the bumps with love and respect. Thank you, Hilary, and this was in my FB feed today, reinforcing what you taught me.
Hilary – next week is my last week of this awesome program. This has been a life/game changer for me. I finally feel that I am enough, have learned to set healthy boundaries and enforce them politely. I love the new ME!! I want to continue to allow the lessons learned to sink in deeper until they are natural for me. Thank you so much for your awesome, authentic coaching!!!
I feel so much better and I look so bright and happy. Thank you, Hilary Silver, your program is life changing! Best beauty potion ever, loving yourself and freeing yourself of unwanted should and regrets.
IT’S MY GRADUATION!! As I sit here reflecting on the growth and progress, I’ve achieved for myself with the benefit of this program in 8 weeks…I’m in awe!! October’s Lenea can barely recognize December Lenea! I am most appreciative of Hilary Silver and the GTLYW team for their guidance and encouraging support throughout this metaphorical “autopsy” of myself. Going through the module exercises were enlightening and often times painfully emotional, but I know if I hadn’t made the choice I would not be able to stand proud and accept ME for who I am and learn how to take my perceived “weaknesses” and turn them into strengths.
I’ve been known to quote the Avatar mantra “I see you!” to others; but now I can say that to MYSELF with newfound understanding & no longer be ashamed! All the “ugly” parts of me makes me who I am but they don’t have to control/define me. Don’t get me wrong, it is a daily exercise in denial to not revert back to my “people pleasing” habits; but I now have the tools and conscious awareness of those behaviors and can say, “NOT TODAY!” thanks to Hilary Silver & GTLYW program.
Thank you to the GetTheLoveVIP FB support group of strong independent women who, like myself, were willing to show/share their vulnerability and strengths with one another. You have been a true blessing for me throughout this program. I realized that I am not alone in this.
I’m so grateful I chose ME that “dark” day in October 2019!! Now I’m equipped & ready to achieve more wins for myself in 2020 and beyond.
As for my new beau, I’m still riding this wave of confidence and assurance in myself as our relationship develops. Feeling like a “BadAss” while he pursues me & accepting the truth that I AM worthy of his pursuit and affections. I’m just going to exhale and enjoy myself and not compromise anymore to please others.
So, tomorrow is my last group call with the VIPs. I’m sad to leave this amazing group but also happy for my achievements. Hilary requested us to post our aha moments and what we take with us from this course. Well here is my share:
As I came to this program, I felt broken, disappointed and stuck. I connected with Hilary instantly and that made me feel I had to make an effort to take part in this group. The lessons are fantastic! For me the going invade part has probably been the easiest I detected my flaws, named them, forgave myself for them and moved on. The course taught me to look within and through those eyes look out. A higher self-esteem is the result, I’ve been able to stand my ground and find peace midst chaos. One of my biggest realizations was my relationship with work and workload, but most recently, with money as well. I was feeling I had nothing, disappointed and frustrated for not having achieved riches despite of my age. Week 6 mindfulness exercises made me realize that I’m actually quite wealthy, worthy of all goodness life can offer and I’m grateful for all of it. With so little that has been offered to me I have achieved so much. So I take with me a higher self-esteem, self-assurance and confidence. I not feel that I am attractive, fun and worthy. I didn’t find a boyfriend during this part of the journey, but that is fine. I needed to build myself together first. Love starts form within!
I had a light bulb moment today during my daily walk! I listen to Hilary’s mantra from week 2 every day for my walk, sometimes I say it out loud as well. Today when I said “I trust myself” I realized HOLY SHIT…I trust myself!!! This is the number 1 thing I learned from this program and it’s such a huge deal!!!!! I haven’t trusted myself for years! Every single decision I used to make I ran by SO many different people, then went with the general consensus of what they decided for me (and rarely did my wants come into play…mostly because I had no friggin idea). I realized today I haven’t asked anyone except myself and God what is in my best interested for WEEKS! And it has been such a game changer!!!
I’ve spent the better part of 7 years as a divorced woman chasing “free dating advice” and had gotten my monies worth. I continued to make the same dating mistakes, continued to live in fear, and continued to spend Saturday nights alone. I then took the scary plunge to invest significantly in myself – my money, my time and my vulnerability – and I don’t regret it for one second. The Get The Love Program has absolutely changed my life, and not just my love life, but every part of my life. I’ve known Hilary Silver for over 10 years and she is a woman of vast knowledge, experience and integrity. She is worth every penny.
This is just something you need to do for yourself if you feel you are in need of help. 100% worth the investment in myself! Just take the leap, you’ll thank yourself and Hilary!
It was my first call that I could listen to real time and it was outstanding! What I kept forgetting as I sequestered myself in my own pity party for so many years – is that I’m not totally original. There’s someone going through the same things as I am – clearly shown today – and this group of women whom I was blessed to join this current group with is incredible! Hilary – you have helped me more in a week than months of counseling that I have done in the past! I’m so excited for the rest of program. Thank you!
I’m so sad to be graduating from this amazing program…Hilary you are the best! I have seriously made such incredible progress on my journey of growth and personal development and will be forever grateful…thank you. I am grateful for all the support and encouragement from this group! To all you amazing ladies, we are awesome and we are so fortunate to be able to commit and invest in ourselves and this program…do not waste a moment or a call, get the most you can from this program…learn that you are special, you are worth, you can have the mindset and you can manifest the quality man of your dreams!
Just finished week #1 of this amazing program. Loved the videos and the exercises. Writing a gratitude journal is part of my morning routine, but loved, loved the way Hilary recommends we write it. Give thanks as if what we want is already in our lives! Started week 2 yesterday and with lesson 1 you had me both crying and laughing at the time Hilary. I felt as if you had made that video just for me. You were describing my life to the t! last night I took the first step to accepting my imperfections. There was definitely a shift in my body and my soul. Thank you Hilary for the work you do and sharing your light with us.
Hilary, the energy and passion you have to assist women in creating the life they want-desire-create-choose with the man of their dreams is inspiring. My mindset changes are happening with me right now. You inspire me to “be” the best version of myself. Thank you!